The two are not officially married, but took part in a commitment ceremony July 20, 2007 which was overseen by Tony's teammate Tony Richardson. The two say that despite the legal technicality, they consider themselves married.
The two have one daughter together, Malia, born in May, 2008. Tony has a son from a previous relationship as well.
Tony Gonzalez's wife October Gonzalez,
Tony and October recently posed for a PETA campaign discouraging wearing fur. Though Tony is not a typical PETA vegan, he did experiment with veganism as an alternative therapy after a bout of facial paralysis caused by Bell's Palsy.